quarrel over prize money part 3

bladez87 SG

ok. so got prize and blah blah.

then 2 days ago we quarrelled over the $ la.

although only involved 3 of us, but the other 2 members of my group are treating me v hostile now. why i wonder.

i chase them do projects early for the good of our results. and they kpkb me.

we go join competition, they no do anything. ask split prize. so i am greedy. but you cant blame me.i rather donate the $ to charity then to give them their supposed share.

but after the quarrel, the other 2 members who are not involved also hostile me.

why ah? i dont get it.

tmr got major presentation for projects.

until now still no receive the slides. supposed to rehearse today also no rehearse.

and they purposely choose first slot at 9am. but now all hostile me. tmr presentation sure go wrong 1. prepare also no prepare. i also dont know what to do liao. how

shade343 SG

Cos you were not magnanimous. And indirectly, you spawned a wave hostility.

mhcampboy SG

Aiyah. A team will always be a team. No matter how lazy one is. That is what a team for. I will still use the soccer examples...

players on match day kick here kick there win the match..... but substitutes who neva play also will get the medal... get my drift...?

^tamago^ SG

ur group 5 ppl?

bladez87 SG

magnanimous?

i dont get it. why should i share the $ with them when they no contribute.

so now the $ problem settled. 6 2 2.
but it only affects 2 members. why the other 2 members also hostile me. i dont get it.

it is not as though the $ problem affects them. and the best part is, i treat them as friends, yet they hostile me. wtf man

mhcampboy SG

If they are not in your team...you can neva win the competition as you need a team to win.

^tamago^ SG

i think they pa-ka to give u pressure cos u getting 60% of money must do 60% of the job.

bladez87 SG

but the pay for each player is different what!

furthermore, they got the trophy. they got the CCA points. they got to be 3rd for the competition. and they got to be on the school website.

aint that the medal? but the prize $ where got split equally? beckham they all also get higher pay what

shade343 SG

If you were magnanimous, it would 3.3 3.3 3.3. Not 6 . 2 . 2.

Sometimes in life, you just have to let others piggy back on you. By asking for a higher share of the prize money, you are indirectly signalling to them that you are in a way "greedy". As the saying goes " why cut the nose to spite the face? "

Its not like the SIM NMC will go away. Its organised every year and you just have to be careful on who you will select to be your group members in future.

bladez87 SG

but only 3 out of 5 of us join the competition. the other 2 no matter what also will not get the $. so why they pa ka?

furthermore, i dont do 60% of the job, but i always do my part + PLUSSSS always cover the rest parts, and end up editing.

they give sai report i also got to clean it up for them.

but the last week reports i do my part and i heck liao. at most i edit only. their part i dont care liao. wtf sia.

i do so much and they dont appreciate.
we had 3 projects ongoing.
i finished 1 of the project by myself solely. report everything.

they had the cheek to say, i do finish the report liao, why no help them with the other projects. when in fact, i skipped school 1 day to rush finish my report.

is not as if i no did my part for the other projects, i only no cover up for them or edit. and they kpkb.

digicharat SG

there will only be 2 outcome for you tomorrow.

1, your 4 other member already did the slides for presentation and prepare to let you make a fool out of yourselves tomorrow.

2, you do all the slides yourselves, then present everything yourselves. at the end of the presentation, credit everything to yourselves.

bladez87 SG

being magnanimous is 1 thing.
giving credit where it is due is another thing.

i just dont get it. why should they get an equal share.

i pretty stubborn hor. haha

but i just dont see the point.

but aint they greedy themselves?

but that matter aside.

what puzzles me is the other 2 members who are hostile to me too. why? the bloody $ fight doesnt involve them.

tmr presentation. i ask 1-2 questions only. he cut me off. wtf sia. tmr sure fight 1 la.

bladez87 SG

and i was preparing to go out celebrate that all projects and presentations over tmr by treating the other 2 who did not join the competition.

treating by kbox or lan or whatever la.

now after the hostile incident. i also no mood liao.

^tamago^ SG

there is nothing we can do as formnites................. Rolling Eyes

oh yeah, there is still one thing i can do.....

bladez87 SG

haha.ya i just venting my anger. so tmr at least will go with an empty guage, rather than go there all fired up to fight. haha

digicharat SG

wow!
complaining on forum can ease your anger towards some other? Laughing

FireIce SG

knn
cont in part 2 lah