one thing though...
SAF see paper one... for a diploma holder, the advancement just
might not be there... u hit a ceiling rather quickly...
but all in all, what is 10 years?
enlist at 21 for poly grads, stay there till 30, 31, take your
savings, gratituity, whatever, and move on.
u've got at least 10 more good years.
but as what everybody says, if u do something for money, its the
worst possible situation to be in for the long run...
and to me, its much easier to drop a dead-beat boyfriend than to
take on HIS worries into your life.