Before you are quick to dismiss that guys or gals alike who
surfed forum are generally losers, the 'unwanted' or even weirdos,
let me tell you that I do have a fair share of gal friends who got
hitched online and are now happily married. They are expecting a
child next year. Similar articles of couple who met online have
also proven that relationship works because of the uniqueness of
forum environment where mutual understanding starts before prior to
the process directed towards
friendship-relationship-marriageship.
In the process of sharing thoughts and ideas in a forum
environment, somehow people with similar interests can gel up well
or perhape these 'thoughts' or 'ideas' that you had shared in the
forum are actully what the single and available forumites look for
in their ideal partner-to-be. You can't stop cupid from shooting
the love arrow can you?
Certainly I cannot lump it all up and say that all users of forums
are Mr Nice or Ms Kind. The onus is to be careful in your dealing
and get to know the someone deeper before meeting up, preferably in
group. So the next time before you jump to conclusion and formulate
a biased perception on anyone online, try looking it from another
angle and do not deny the person of a fair trial.
