Malaysia does not want to fight a protracted war as well. In the
case of any outbreak of hostilities. A protracted war will greatly
screw up their nation as well. Unless it is a zero sum game, which
is very unlikely, the use of military force would be measured,
somewhat limited to reduce damage on either side where the point of
the war is not to crush your enemy, but hurt him enough to make him
more willing to see things your way.
Stories like ASTROS 2 bombardment blanketing Singapore are
far-fetched for the very reason we are not living with neighbours
would want to see us destroyed at any cost. And besides, given the
fact that there are plenty of civillian and assets from other
militaries in Singapore, anyhow shooting rockets into the nation
will probably hurt the attacker more in the long run. Sure you can
fight a war but when your palm oil kenna santioned and people are
forced to buy US soy oil, you might want to think twice about using
your toys as if they are some trump card.
While we cannot rely on nations like the US to fight a war for us,
it would be more foolish to think that we do not need them as
allies.
Who would dare to bully Singapore, if it not only has a credible
armed force, but also healthy relations with other nations which
bully boy will not dare to offend.