You are talking about LOVE here.
LOVE, is a VERY strong feeling. When you already love a person, be
it you as the man or she as the woman you love, anything happens
before or after MARRIAGE, doesn't (and should not) change a thing
about how you feel or how she feels about you.
In love, there is NO burden even when there is.
So, for instance, like if my wife suddenly becomes bed-ridden (choy
choy choy touch wood) , I WILL still be taking care of her no
matter how much I can earn! I have no heart to leave her to her own
fate! How can I do that? I will never be able to live with
myself!!!
LOVE, should NEVER have any conditions attached. Otherwise, there
will be a lot of hardcore criminals out there without mothers who
come to their court hearings for murdering someone. Love is love,
doesn't matter what happens to you, or what wrongs you have done in
life.
LOVE is incorruptible.