I think you're a individualist, and will not give in to consider
that there are others who doesn't have very much of their own
personality. That's when people are crippled to live their own life
when they live a life(Consciously or Sub-consciously) to BE like
someone else.
I find you ok, just the words ....they're unkind. Try to make sense
out of your statements...people will agree if you do.
Yes indeed, this is a rare moment of compassion. 