Break-Patch
(Requested by dearest MC 
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Both man and woman have equal share of this love
vicious cycle that gradually drain and suck life out from a healthy
relationship until it become baked and dry of vitae.
CloUdiSm states: Any relationship that undergo 2 break and
1 patch is almost a goner, without sufficient rest and maturity
gain in between the break.
Relationship is like an infinite flight of
stairs.
Every relationship, be it old flame or new love, is a new beginning
that starts at the very first step of the stairs. As the
relationship cultivate growth, you advance up the flight of stairs.
Certain issues in love will slow down this growth; this represent
you walking up a flight of spiral stairs. Though slow, but you are
certain that it will still bring you higher if problems was
properly take care of and be enlightened.
Of course, the easiest way to escape this spiral stairs is to leap
out (break) and attempt to start all over again (patch).
The impact of breaking is represented by how high the flight of
stairs you are at before leaping off. You won't die - but the fall
will wound you greatly.
When you decide to patch again - you returned back to the very first
step you took right in the beginning. If this continues, you
either bleed to death from the wounds you inflict upon your love,
lose all the confidence to try anymore or simply too tired to
continue walking the same flight of stairs. 
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Couple that hate to communicate or fail to practice
good communication skills and leads to conflicts will find
themselves unable to resolve this bitterness or tension within
their emotional structure. A violent break is instigated and the
couple's bond is severed forcefully.
When clarify returns, they regret and seek to reconstruct this
bond.
When a break is used to 'solve' a problem - it never served its
purpose.
You merely set them aside.
When you patch back, the issue is STILL stack at the side, but
couple undergoing vicious cycle chose to ignore and push them into
their subconscious. This effect is cumulative and with each new
stack on top of the old issue - old issue take roots and make
relationship tight and unstable.
Each of these stacks occupies space and when too many of these
stacks is around, it force love out of the picture and even if the
couple wished to do something - they wouldn't know where to begin
by then.
Love is suffocated and dies like a burn-out candle -
no amount of flame can rekindle them.
P.S: Employing break to solve love issue will trigger an
irrevocably relationship habit & mindset on communication and
problem solving. Relationship can survive many issues, but it can
only survive that couple of breaks before it is
permanently shattered.
Cheers
