Originally posted by Marco_Simone:
Anyone wanna try this???
[b]What's a good way for a shy guy to overcome that nervous feeling
that holds him back from approaching women?
The answer is to start small.
Don't worry about what anyone else is doing or what anyone else
thinks.
Just go out for a day and go to a mall alone. Walk into every store
and start a conversation with a woman who works there. Don't worry
about whether the woman is good-looking, married or whatever.
Simply practice.
At first, let the women start the conversations. When they say,
"Can I help you find something?" reply with "Yes, that would be
great. I'm looking for joy, peace and a rich girlfriend. Do you
have any of those here?" Say it with a straight face, like a
comedian would.
After you've done this 20 times, reflect on what you've learned.
Think about what worked and what didn't. Think about the
conversations that took place as a result.
Take a break, walk down to a department store, and spray some
cologne on each wrist. On your right wrist you can spray D&G's
"Dolce & Gabbana," and on your left wrist, Armani's "Acqua Di
Gio."
Then, walk into 20 more stores. This time, try to make direct eye
contact with the first woman you see that works there, and hold it
until she either starts talking to you or she looks away. Then walk
over to her and say, "Hi, I need a female perspective on something.
Which of these colognes do you like better?"
Then, when she chooses one, shake your head and look at her with a
disapproving look and say, "You would."
Then give her a sly smile and say, "Why do you like it better? I
want to be a chick magnet here, so tell me what you're
thinking."
If you do this exactly as I've described, you will have "gotten
started," and you'll have a base of experience to work from.
By the way, if any of the women are cute , feel free to say, "Hey,
I have to go. Do you have e-mail?"[/b]
these sounds so familiar...
i remember reading something like these somewhere sometime
ago...
