The gf that dumps you comes back to you?

last SG · 2006-06-04T16:45:46+00:00

it did happen to me end-2004. i didnt accept her. and i think i did the right thing.

banzie SG

Let's say you have this person you loved very much and after her for years faithfully... she got attached with another person eventually... you were so devastated and you beg her back.... she refused... you moved on and promised yourself to forget her and find a new one..it is all over.... then out of a sudden after sometime she realised you are better... she wanted to come back to you... what would you do?

I just want to hear what would you do... if its you...
I say I will ask her go eat shit...

pierre^^ SG

thats a very hard decision to make. But since she dump u for someone better w/o ani of ur mistake~ i tink u should be firm and dun patch with her coz u are definately nt a standby bf.

Unless u forsee that u very hard to find gf again

spartan6 SG

How i wish mine comes back, 5 years liao she did not dun think it will ever come thought Crying or Very sad

Ito_^ SG

no ideas. Laughing

but if possible, nah.. dun wan. there won't be a sense of trust.

banzie SG

I think even if I couldn't find anyway I will never forgive the person giving her heart to someone else... and come back expecting everything to be fine...

Tell me if it is you what would you do then.... get back to her?

polarsnake SG

This kind of girl you know is the unfaithful sort already then forget about her lah. Since you know how her true character is like then she doesn’t deserve your love. You’d better get one that has inner beauty instead.

spartan6 SG

I will cos i still love her

dork3d SG

Me got this type of encounter before...

One week before me and my wife got married, my ex-girlfriend came back to me and asked for forgiveness and reconciliation, she cried and me being the type who can totally softened when a girl cries in front of me, me almost gave in to agree to reconcile with her... Then my heart stung hard that me was just been compassionate with her but my love for her already died, me rejected her wish for reconciliation and told her that me already moved on with my life and found a new girl in my life whom me getting married a week later...

She cried bitterly and went away... From that day onwards, me never see her again...

BrUtUs SG

if already got gf of course tell her too late... if not gf then take her in then dump her...

^tamago^ SG

did u ask the same question at some other forum? ahem

Cenarious SG

either

1) use her for sex
or
2) tell her you demand to have a 2nd gf cos she had another bf.

banzie SG

1) No never ask before...

Hmm I'm not that bad... lah I believe even if cannot be couple can still be frens... I hated guys who take advantage of Girls especially purely for sex.

lonestar86 SG

no thanks.. Laughing

newcomer SG

Time to take revenge and dumb her back lor. Laughing No lah just kidding.

Gwangetto SG

maybe she can be my sister instead? Laughing

i very gracious wan.. break off still can be friends, even sister.

unlike some people who turn their backs on u when things turn sour Rolling Eyes

TruFaith` SG

Hmm, best thing is just to ignore that person. It feels good enuf that she finally realised ur the better one. In a way, it gives u the satisfaction that ur actually a great person and ur ex finally realised tat. Tat’s a great feeling in itself. However, no need to establish any sort of contact with her anymore. Pointless…

alexkusu SG

she just wants sex

dork3d SG

Strangely that when my ex came back to look for me and both of us were alone in my house, she tried to unbutton her blouse and initiated sex, but me didn't get turned on and covered her back...

Maybe the fact that she was already history in my life...

casino_king SG

If you want her to go eat sh1t then it would seem that you still care. If you don't care you will not ask her to go eat anything... will you regret your decision if you still care so much for her?

dakkon_blackblade SG

What's your wife's reaction? Does she even know about this incident?

Anyway, if it were me, I think I'd find it rather hard in my heart to forgive such a girl.