king108 SG No experienced, cannot married yet got another question. My brother asked me to go for Malay Girl to marry, he say malay girls "sayang Ah Bung ceocoh ceocoh". I got no objection over it lah. Anyway, marry malay girl only need to "potong" a bit then Jalan leh and afterthat masuo sini. My dad also need not to worry about dowry cause the girl side will give to the man. Besides that, I will get a new place to live.. leaving my house to my dad. Of Course, I will have to change my name to Problem is what happened to my kids if any What will be show on their birth certificate Will he be a Chinese a Malay a Mix-blood What surname he followed Is he a Majority or Minority? My dad is very concerned..his thinking is still very old chinese. I am even more worried when their classmates laughed at them too.
rathcycle SG Other things i dunno, but sir-name can be either father’s or mother’s 1, normally father’s 1..
king108 SG I thought if I "Jia" malay girl, I had to change name leh. Maybe become Abdullah or Ali like that. Next thing is that am I still a Chinese? By changing surname, my kids will be what?
king108 SG I susposed only those midwife or KK nurse can answer these identity problem for me. I don't want my kids to be called "Chap Cheng" by other kids..I will be angry.
NightHunter83 SG Think ur name will change to something something... bin Abdullah. Coz Abdullah was the father of Muhammad.
TehJarVu SG huh? marriage so easy one ah? say marry malay girl means tomorrow you will straight away find a malay girl to marry and have kids!
king108 SG The problem is their ID? What will be showed on their birth certificate or NRIC future. Do I have to change also. Needed to find out, because some of my clients may not be happy with my new ID.
king108 SG So I will become a Muslim. Pray 5 times a day, no problems lah. But am I still chinese or become a new minority?
Wanda SG You will become a Chinese Muslim, and only allowed to eat Halal food. I know of a Chinese acquaintance who is like that.
king108 SG Then what is the identity of their children? Chinese or Malay? Since I married out, no married in.
Wanda SG My Chinese acquaintance not yet have children, so dunno yet. Perhaps you can call up the Registry of Births to ask.
sohguanh SG My Chinese acquaintance not yet have children, so dunno yet. So does he need to cut his skin down below?
