Seven defeats (capture) and seven releases of "Mang
Hou". This parts of the stories show that Kong Ming was good when
handling barbarians.
Why did he do that and no killing him on the first, second or third
times..giving 7 chances to opponents is stupid? smart? or too free
nothing to do?
Will us in real life do that to our opponent..as long as you are
human..the answer can be never..
I think Kong Ming's move is smart. Like "Han Zhong Wang" never
killed the Qin surrendered soldiers, while "Chu Ba Wang" killed a
lot because of his loved woman "Ji"
In real life, I never go after a scared dog to a dead corner, cause
he may bite me at all cost..Hence, it is good to let the opponent
to have a retreat route so that they will surrender with less
resistance.
However, the smartest move may be buying their heart if they are
loyal to their old bosses, else can considered removing him when
you have replacement.
No all opponents are no good for you. History does show us that we
can have talented opponent giving their service if you respected
them.
Any comments. 