a balance..
gals just look for flat, toned abs n some broad shoulder, thats
it...
they arnt interested in armor plated pecs/huge arms/huge
thighs/v-taper..in fact most r turn off at sight of huge guys
but some guys like me arnt just sastisfied with only abs...in fact,
i used to have toned n a little bit of abs definition when i was
too engorssed with abs but now all is gone cause i m bulking n
looking for size 
