Nah, the " controversial topic " was in response to this :
Someone wanted to do his country proud , but I just stated that
, there are in fact more of his country women marrying spore men
,after getting their education and started their career here , than
spore women marrying his country men...
I do not intend to ruined this bridge thread by going into the "
controversial topic " I have msian ex-classmates, friends and
colleagues too. They are a wonderful and hardworking group of
associates 
I do not have the intention to belittle our northern neighbour, in
fact, i avocate for cooperation with them for the economic benefit
of the entire region. The hare and tortise story.And also Life will
be better when there are cooperation than when there's lack of
it.
I apologise if anyone felt insulted over my previous posts.
Anyway, sometimes, even myself also cannot understand our own
gahmen. 
