but your childhood is gone. 
and who says those who have maids are spoilt brats? i still wash
the dishes and cook for myself sometimes. And all these talks about
independence are to be experienced when you are in university
itself. It is the same concept as learning how to run before you
know how to walk, there is a procedure in learning. Unless you
enjoy the life you are living now, then i have nothing to
say.
and if u cant do all the stuff u said, where can u find secondary
school buddies?
and those who stereotype teenagers as spoilt brats and stuff, you
are only looking at the handful who are ignorant and careless about
their future.