sometimes, generalizing the whole church is not the right thing
to do.
i've seen many good followers from that church and very nice
people, as well as many nasty crooks and suckers there too. but do
u go to church because of how those people treat u? or do u go to
church knowing that God will supply ur needs and be there for
u?
i dunno what ur fren went thru.. but i believe that there must be
certain reasons for him to leave after tithing. rite? actually, i
would suggest him to change cell groups instead of leaving cos
there're so many cell groups there. u'll never know that one
particular cell group is concern enuff to their member's
needs.
well, all i say is that there's no perfect church. and
additionally, we dun put our hopes on people, but rather, on God
Himself. 
