In truth, no one is guilty (or innocent, for that matter), of
anything. There's just a lot of miscommunication, which is not
uncommon.
The fact is, everyone is seeing only (false) ideas of everyone
else, and not their actual being. So when you're upset and you
attack someone online, you're only attacking your idea of that
person online (ie. what he represents to you), and not actually
that person himself.
And by Clarification, Law of Reflection and self-responsibility,
when you say, "pple should not misunderstand me or throw personal
attacks at me", what you're really saying (what the experience is
teaching you), is that "I should not misunderstand others or throw
personal attacks at others", as well as "I should not misunderstand
me or throw personal attacks at me".
So anyways, even if there has been miscommunication or
misunderstanding, but in the end it's all ok. Since you realize
that we are really only seeing ourselves in others, in everyone
that we interact with (this is the inner reflective meaning of
relationships, with the outer being Evolutionary Duo, in support of
each other's evolution); ultimately what matters is yourself, how
you see all these aspects in yourself, do you accept and love them
in yourself, and how you may continue to improve and evolve these
aspects within yourself.
And then, you can share this with others around you as well.
Have a nice day 
