Men and women are different. A man, by nature, tends to look for
comfort and consistency in his relationship.
A woman, on the other hand, tends to turn her primary relationship
into a "Perpetual-Improvement Project." So, if there's nothing to
work on or process, she's compelled to create something in order to
continue work on her Project. As my uncle Jethro Love would say,
"They've always gotta mess with things when things don't need
fixin'."
You've probably heard the old familiar saying: A woman marries a
man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman
expecting that she won't change, and she does.
The interesting thing about familiar sayings is that a lot of them
are based on real wisdom. In relationships, a man avoids change
while a woman thrives on it -- if things seem a bit placid and
static, it's time for her to stir things up!
