Coping with a breakup is hard for everyone, but in my opinion,
it is harder for men. This is especially true for men who were in
long-term relationships.
Now you're probably wondering why I believe it is more difficult
for men. The answer is simple: We all know that one of the best
ways to recover from a breakup is to meet new people. Well, after a
breakup, men have a more difficult time.
Just think about it for a moment. If you break up with your
girlfriend, all she has to do is go down to the local café, bar,
club (you name it) and she'll have at least one man approach her.
If she wants, she'll be in the sack with him by night's end.
On the other hand, the fragile, ego-broken man who was just dumped
by his girlfriend now has the difficult task of approaching a
strange woman and risking being rejected all over again.
Of course, his job is made a lot more difficult because he has to
approach a woman while dealing with his new desperate state of mind
(which definitely does not improve his chances: women hate
desperate men), broken ego and rusty "pickup" skills.
Men, here are some necessary steps you must take to recover from a
breakup:
