Question: why is the study and it seems, a general acceptance,
that women just want to grab their guy to marry him?
If so, it cheapens the guy, it cheapens themselves, and thus the
guy will see it for what it is, either consciously or unconsciously
and then everything is turned into some kind of cheap
transaction.
Can you then blame the man for "trying to get sex" from the woman
while the woman is "trying to get him to marry her" from the
man?
The fact is that there were ulterior motives from both sides that
cheapen the hell out of the relationship.
Whatever happened to love? Whatever happened to both sides putting
in the effort to making the relationship work?
If these conditions existed, is marriage really necessary for a
monogamous, mutually faithful relationship? What they would have
would be more than the usual marriage we see around.. where the man
feels as if he just signed a contract which did away with his
freedom and the woman just signed a contract where she gets a man
and a wedding party with a pretty diamond ring to show the
world.
Girl, remember... it takes 2 hands to clap. No one, and I mean NO
ONE pulled a gun to the woman's head to force her to co-habit with
the man... if she has ulterior motives, she just cheapened herself
and the man she supposedly loves. Then it's no better than looking
at herself as a professional and the man, her trick.
It's a brutal analysis, but you know it's true.
