Scorpio Male
The Scorpion is determined, shrewd, protective, jealous, and
powerful. It is a sign prone to obsession, and the Scorpio man is
not nonchalant about anything, from his career to his love life.
Symbolized by the phoenix rising from the ashes, this bird aptly
suggests Scorpio`s incredible ability to regenerate from seemingly
disastrous situations. Much has been written about how sexy and
mysterious Scorpio is. To him sex is very important, and it would
be impossible for him to have a happy relationship without great
sex. The Scorpio male is macho, a modern day 007: thrilling,
strong, silent and handsome.
Your Challenge
One of the challenges of being in love with a Scorpio male is to
get him to voice his innermost thoughts and feelings. Sometimes it
is impossible know exactly what a Scorpio is thinking! He can be a
temperamental, jealous lover, so watch your step. You will have to
play by his rules or leave him. With this man, there are no shades
of gray.
How To Handle Him
Still waters run deep, and you will find him fiercely loyal and
deeply passionate. This Pluto ruled-lover would never dream of
divulging details of your private life together to others, and
expects the same from you. Woe to the woman who strays from his bed
to another lover, for he will never forgive her. The Scorpion`s
sting is never used casually, only when he feels threatened to the
core, for its sting kills not only the victim but the Scorpion
itself. Scorpio will never suffer betrayal.
Things To Do, Gifts To Buy
If you want to get your Scorpio lover a bit more relaxed and
focused on you, try taking him to a small, cozy restaurant that
serves solid manly food like a juicy steak and fries. Red wine will
probably be his choice over champagne. The Scorpio male is no
delicate gourmand. He would love a dark, rich chocolate mouse for
dessert, if he likes sweets (some Scorpios do, some don`t). Wear
your little black dress or something in burgundy, his favorite
color.
Your Scorpio will want you to be uninhibited. Don`t become offended
if he suggests viewing a sex video together. He does not see
pornography as degrading to women, but as research and stimulus for
new things to do. Since this sign rules law enforcement, crime and
punishment, suggest he play policeman with you. Give him a gift box
containing a blindfold and some handcuffs and you`ll be all set.
This man likes trying out a little light S&M playacting too so
if you trust him, be cooperative if wants to put his naughty girl
over his knee for a little spanking. This intense sign will insist
on being the one in control, but surrendering to a Scorpio can be
divine rapture.
Scorpio Female
The Scorpio woman has great charm, allure, and inner strength, and
is able to overcome most any obstacle in life. She comes across as
self-confident and self-possessed and men are drawn to her for that
reason. There is a mysterious quality about the Scorpio woman,
because she is intensely private, discrete and secretive. Soon she
will learn everything about you, but later you will realize that
she hasn`t given you many details about herself--that`s Scorpio`s
natural reticence.
Finally, the operative word to best understand your Scorpio lover
is "passion." One Scorpio once said to me that passion was the
single most important ingredient in life, that is, to be passionate
about one`s loved ones, one`s career, one`s lifestyle, for without
passion, what kind of life would we have in the end? Well
said!
Your Challenge
Your Scorpio beauty is attracted to power, so if you have it, you
are ahead of the game. Your other challenge will be that this lady
has a mind of her own, so if you think you can tame her, forget
it.
How To Handle Her
Her highly intuitive nature makes her a mind reader extraordinaire,
so don`t try to hide anything from her. If you are trying to
impress her with power you don`t have, her Pluto-ruled nature will
sense it like a homing device. (Certainly you don`t want to
activate her seek and destroy mechanism.) In love and friendship,
she is true-blue loyal and will expect the same from you. If you
show her the slightest reason to distrust you, however, she will
never forgive you. On the other hand, treat her well and she will
reward you for the rest of your life. Home and family are regarded
as sacred, and Scorpio will defend and support her man to the ends
of the earth. Like Leo women, Scorpio women are into control, and
with her magnetic, femme fatale powers, she will soon have the
upper hand. After all, who could resist her famous Scorpion gaze,
those memorable bedroom eyes?
Things To Do, Gifts To Buy
If you take your Scorpio beloved out for dinner, make it a private
little dark rendezvous, overlooking water if possible or better
yet, as a guest on a private yacht (preferably yours). The Scorpion
woman will always be understated with her powerful sexuality--she
doesn`t need to flaunt it, it exudes naturally. In her dress, she
is very careful about her accessories, buying only thee finest
shoes and handbags, and if she needs one, an elegant leather brief
case. She knows these accessories punctuate her entire look and
impart a feeling of true elegance. Get her quality things made out
of leather (down, boy, not those things). If treating her to
perfume, get her a modern oriental or something of musk and subtly
sexual.
While the Scorpio woman is always a lady in public, she loves being
her man`s fantasy woman in the bedroom. Buy her some new lingerie
in of her most flattering tones: maroon, eggplant or a black.
Elegant French and Italian imported lingerie will impress her so
buy her a demi-cup push up bra, tiny, sheer g-string bikini and
elegant garter belt, complete with a pair of black seamed
stockings. She may also be amused and aroused by a lavishly
illustrated photography book by Helmut Newton or Doris Kloster. If
you get lucky, she may want to experiment a little by lap dancing
for you and you alone.
This sign rules detective work, so plan a mystery for her. She has
a rich imagination and this should work whether you`ve known her a
month or a decade. Tell her to meet you in the most elegant hotel
bar in town. When you spot her, stand at the other end of the bar
and have the waiter send over a glass of champagne and a note from
you. By now the suggestive nature of your behavior will have the
staff murmuring and staring and it will begin to turn her on
tremendously. After the second or third drink, send her the key to
your room in a small envelope. (Book their best suite ahead of time
and stock it with roses and.) When she`s pocketed the key, have her
meet you by the elevator. Ride up alone, pushing her against the
back wall of the elevator and tell her in great detail what you
have planned. Show her the silk ribbons you`ve tucked into your
breast pocket--Scorpio is intrigued by bondage. Although she will
try her hardest not to show it, she will be aching ! for you to
begin. She won`t forget this mystery, and neither will you!
