what do guys think of girls who make the first move ?
i'm sure many girls would like to know this as well. i've seen that
some guys get kind of turn off when girls make the first move ,
whereas some guys feel that the girl is brave and feels flattered.
what's your opinion ?
That speaks positively on the part of the girl. As opposed to
girls who, out of fear for societal dogmatic foolish limiting ideas
(eg "guys should make first move", etc), are afraid to act on their
heartfelt feelings, and even perhaps play hard to get.
The girl who has the willingness, courage and sincerity to
'make-the-first-move' is showing her openness and willingness to
communicate with the guy, and also signalling to the guy positive
encouragement to further their relationship. The mature,
intelligent and non-dogmatic (ie. sincere, courageous and dares to
do what's right for himself even if it's against societal dogma)
guy, will be appreciative of the girl who does this.
Indeed, because everyone has been incarnated in both male and
female bodies before, in previous lifetimes or past lives, and the
soul is essentially simultaneously both male & female, it is
only natural and right, that ideas that dictate separate roles or
rights or 'shoulds' & 'should-nots' for guys vs gals, should be
re-examined under the light of spiritual intelligence, wisdom and
lovingness, and determined (by every individual for him/herself),
whether it is a worthy guideline to follow, and to understand
thoroughly the underlying principles and purposes for any such
ideas, in the light and goal of maximum CosmoEthics, Evolution,
Assistantiality and Love.
Conclusion :
Girls who make the first move, RRRRRrrrroooxxxXXXXxxxoooorrrRRss!!!
