so shouyld i ask for a transfer or sometihng?. or should i call
her up and ask her bout it?. at one hand i have a tough time here
with my sudies and on the other hand i have a problematic
relationship...and i cant cope with both at the same time but i
dont wan to lose anyone of them... well..i dont know what to do
now.. any advices?
Clear communication is essential to a true, working
relationship. Let her know exactly how you feel (maybe even send
her the url to this post), then ask *her* for advice.
In this way, she knows you value her, and you value her input, and
she'll know not only you want the relationship to work
successfully, you want to work it out *together* with her.
Best wishes to you and her.
PS.
One day, either when things really get to a crossroad where you
seriously need advice, or when after things more stabilized liao
(eg. gonna get married), you might also want to do a Hilarion
Reading to ask for the deeper meaning behind the relationship,
as well as advice on how to continue the relationship the most
loving and beneficial way.
