Originally posted by SoulDivine:
If you lend money to friends/relatives and they are not
returning you anything. My advice to you is to call that person up,
tell him/her that the sum of money is considered given away and
does not need to be return.
And from that point onwards, you have [b]free yourself of the
frustration and hatred towards that person. That is no need to make
yourself suffer because of other person's wrongdoings.
If you do it right, the person who owns you money will stop
avoiding you, will have a better opinion of you, and may ever
consider returning you the money in future.
Guys, all of you must understand that money lost can be easily earn
back, human relationships that are lost are hard to come back and
may never ever come back. I understand this because I have
experience, don't follow my footsteps. 
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I half agree with u, but half not agree with u... especially
when u mentioned call tat person up and say tat u given him tat sum
of money and does not need to return.. my view is tat, if tat
person who is sincere of cherishing u as a frien, he will still
insists of paying u back, even if u say tat to him/her.. maybe by
installment la.. but if the person did tat again and again how?
isn't tat taking advantage of u? tat's y sometimes must see how is
the situation first... 
