Why like this?

sgboy SG

After lending money to one of my friend (we have since not in good terms), he told me this, on the next day, after I lent him the money:

- You can don't lend me in the first place.
- That amount will not cut your skin
- That amount is nothing to you
- etc

Told him to transfer the amount into my account and his reply is he doesn't know how to use (at the age of 20). And instructed me to go to his house to collect. I told him to come to my house to return and he gave excuses such as he do not know the way.

What you think of such person?

Ito_^ SG

how much? if its nothing to you, den forget this person ever existed or/and tell everyone about him because he will backstab you anyways, so might as well do it first. bite him real hard.

RaTtY81 SG

do not lend any1 large amt of $$, even ur closest fren small amt can. when u lend some1, ppl can call u godfather, u v good la, blah blah blah. than when u wanna collect back $$, ppl jus treat u like dirt…

Ito_^ SG

unless its a donation la..

RaTtY81 SG

u can treat it as a donation Laughing

huiz SG

if u really wan the money back, go to his house to collect back.

ditzy SG

Actually I also dunno how to use the transfer thing until I was past 24. Embarassed

klishcia SG

Obviously he don’t want to return you the money. If its not a huge amount, just let him off and warn every friend (of his) not to lend him money. As for you, just silent break (ignore him, dont call him, dont find him and dont look for him) this friendship with him.

alfagal SG

money is always a sensitive issue...so sometimes, u have to carry e attitude tat e person might not return u e money...yeah..so its sorta like a donation.

well, if e person treats u lik wat u described, there is no value in the friendship at all..

if i were u, i wld b nonchalant bout tis person ever after..
i will help whever i can, but i will have no expectations on tis person to return favours or reciprocate.

eClipseRain SG

is he veri close with u in the past.
how much have u lend him.

sounds like he is one big j3rk to mi.
he do not want to return u the money.
and find excuses trying to avoid.

go to his house and collect the money,
if he do not return the money.
u can actually forget about this guy whether or not he return the money to u.

if the sums of money is big. go harass him.

FireIce SG

tan qian shang gan qing......

dun lend money to frens

if u do, be mentally prepared not to get it back

chunyong SG

Qian Men Men Gui #1 : Liu qin bu ren zhi ren qian, si hai jie tong bu tong qin.

meaning, six kin dun recognise only recognise $, 4 seas may link but no sympathy.

LinLing SG

He sounds like a big jerk.
You can go to house, demend the money back or else you will tell the police and then tell EVERYONE never ever to lend him money. Twisted Evil

Xcert SG

go over...collect ur money and be done with the friendship.

btw...how much is the loan amount?

eClipseRain SG

wow chim.
gu dai ren Laughing

playboy_1985 SG

you know last time i lent my friend some money and he die die dun want return me and even xia lan with me tell me got balls go his house collect. and you know what i did?

SERIOUS

i did go to his house but i bring along a spanner, i mean it! i really brought it and i bang his door and he answered it and i demand he return the money to me pointing him with the spanner. he than tell me to cool off and ask me not to make a sin outside his house. and so he returned my the money and he's out of my life forever. Evil or Very Mad

chunyong SG

very applicable one lor, when $ comes, they dun care u their uncle or aunty....

contact1 SG

lend $$ to fren = throw into the sea

lend money to sis/bro = long term investment

lend $$ to bf = no need hope to get it back

haha Rolling Eyes