SG Parents overprotective? Good or bad?

last SG · 2006-02-20T11:09:05+00:00

Soryy, To be more exact.. It's not school days, Its when he going out watch movie or walk walk.. Curfew is 5pm

Agenda SG

I have a friend whose mother and father set a curfew for him to return home before 5pm everytime he goes out..

He cannot keep going out every week even if its once and HAVE to sneak out before his parents wake up AND his parents considers playing basketball as going out..

He plays his game at home all day and doesn't know his own neighbourhood, Why I know? I brought him there before and then he said he wanna go home then walked off in another direction until I told him wrong liao

He abit siao siao also, Whole day keep tellinh me his weird sexual fantasies until I don't want to talk to him liao.. When I talk seriously to him about his future and poly admission, He scolded me and told me ONLY to talk to him when I decide to talk crap with him like how he wants to OWN EVERY single DVD in the world, One per title.. Told him he would become a bum but he still fantasize about having a 4 storey bungalow when he doesn't have any special talents

He depleted his bank account already and still keeps spending like no tomorrow

He is 16 going to turn 17 this year.. He doesn't know much about things outside, Is it because of his parents protective nature that he became this way?

Lucky my parents not like that Twisted Evil

gUms SG

De only way out is to rebel against ur parents ... sad but true , tat is how i gain my freedom , last time curfew was set at 10 pm , but i always return at 12 midnite , den when it was set to 12 midnite i would return at 4 or 5 am ... that was how i gain my freedom , but brothers and sisters , i understand how u wan to hang out with ur buddies , like going to clubs or chilling out , but pls dont take advantage of de freedom ur parents gave u like taking drugs and wandering around beating or robbing ppl ... once u get caught ur parents will nv trust u again , thats wat happen to me ...

i know that some of u guys do take drugs like xtc or ganja or ketamine , but pls stop is not worth going to prison for 1 yr , if u wanna get high i suggest u guys drink alcohol ... .

bottom of my heart , i dont care wether u are indian , malay , chinese or eurasian , dont do de mistake i did , singapore is a law country , even if u dont possess drugs , but ur urine containt drugs u will be sentence to at least 1 yr in jail for 1st timers , is just noT worth it , u might thing ar i just wan to forget about all my troubles and problems ..YES but once de high is gone all ur trouble will come back to u , i telling u dis is becos i have exprience all dis things b4 , that is why i am confindent in telling u all dis stuffs , if u guys got any problem with gangs or drugs , pls private msg me , i dont mind helping u guys .. as to me , as long as u are a SINGAPOREAN , i will always treat everyone of u guys as brothers and sisters cos everyone is connected quite close to one an another ...

PEACE Out

Agenda SG

Me also, last time 7pm have to reach home then I came back once at 12++ after that they don't care liao as long as I never do anything bad.. Twisted Evil

tt3 SG

Originally posted by Agenda:
Me also, last time 7pm have to reach home then I came back once at 12++ after that they don't care liao as long as I never do anything bad..

same sia... but i everytime mornin den go hm...

Dead_Man_Inc SG

they let me go home anytime i want. as long as i tell them what time i going home beforehand. and provided that i don't do anything bad Laughing

gUms SG

Yes correct ... de only way to get ur freedom is rebel agaist ur parents , but pls if u wanna rebel againts them dont take that as an advantage and do sH|t OUTside like going for fights , stealing , taking drugs or wat ....

gUms SG

i gain my freedom like that , i kept going agaisnt my curefew …

Dead_Man_Inc SG

but some parents really overprotective. Cannot means cannot!

gUms SG

correct ... my parents were once like that ...
let me tell u a lil bout my story....

13 yrs old , always after school must reach home by 7pm , but i always go back 8 plus
14 yrs old can go out on weekends but must come back by 9pm , but i always go back around 10 plus
15 yrs old can go out at weekends but must come back by 11 pm , but i guai lan , come back 12 mid nite,
next week , i wan go out they dont let me go out , i run away from house come back next day afternoon
de next week i did de same i ran away from house , came back de next day ..
after dat curfew was 12 midnite , but i come back 2 or 3 am ...
did de same de next week ..
after dat , they dont care liao , and i always come back 4 or 5 am ...
but untill i got trouble with de law , de curfew was back in place .. but that didnt stop me , i keep coming back at 4 or 5 am ..
but since i keep having trouble with de law , in my teenage life , my life as an adult is not very trusted by my parents , even now , as in a few months time i gonna be 23 yrs old , they still make noise when i go out at night and come back early in de morning , all becos i took advantage of de freedom dey gave me , and i when out getting trouble with de law ....

Dead_Man_Inc SG

then try to gain their trust back?

ha8n SG

now

lots of them prot. even they were babies not

like old times

coffeeortea SG

good stuff there, you have my respect.

and, the other few times i thought you were some clone or troll

UandMe SG

how can it be good...

UandMe SG

i think his parents also know he's siao siao and dun want him to go outside and creates troubles.

Ito_^ SG

curfew.. hmm.. simi lai? Laughing

UandMe SG

u are a headache to ur parents u know... they gave in and allowed u more freedom liao and u must go outside to create trouble, proving that they are right to give u curfew in the first place

sinicker SG

i got one friend who never go orchard road before.

hiphop2009 SG

u kidding?.........

anywway fer me my mum gave me gradual freedom....like 13 yrs old if go anywhere den muz tell her n report to her everything, including wad time come back n stuff like dat........when i was 15 she let me off gradually.....can go out till 12 midnight......den when i turned 16 den was allowed to stay overnight outside but muz tell her lorh....hahah well i nvr abused this b4, n i will make sure i will nvr abuse it.........

Ito_^ SG

o ya one friend got lost in orchard before Laughing but its not a biggie la

Eiizumi SG

I think taking care of your child is like taking a photograph.

If the photographs is under-exposed or over-exposed, everything is dark.

Nothing can be see clearly.