Criteria for a good gf/wife to be ?

last SG · 2006-02-12T09:26:38+00:00

I am sure u have made such a list somewhere before in your life either in your mind or on paper or verbally.

Marco_Simone SG

Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?

Mine are...

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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.

I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.

Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance!

^tamago^ SG

MCP eh... Rolling Eyes

UandMe SG

i think you meant that it's hard to find a girl with the criteria u want.

Ur words are not the universal standards, wat makes u think that only girls with these criteria can be considered as good.

SMAPLionHeart SG

fcuk you lah , you think you are Marco Ricky Martin is it? so many requirement.
Laughing

101wish SG

Asking urself r u any good in the 1st plc..those requirments sometimes may not totally bad girls! Can u gurantee those gals who has gd background, gd education, do housework would stay loyal forever?? And dun u find these type of “gd” gals tend to have higher requirments for guys too?

MingFreeman SG

Good girls and guys are rare nowadays Neutral

mamamamama SG

U post this sure kena flame de Shocked .. Use abit of your blain la..

Ligh7n1ngG0d SG

i agree with this 2.. but it also applies to males..

launtpc SG

So many levels of filters… I think only around 0.002% (thanks Tamago!) of the whole female population can be filtered through your requirements.

^tamago^ SG

no. 0.002%.

elindra SG

Laughing
Going by your standards I shouldn't even be married now

5. My friends are mostly male because I have more common interests with them than my girlfriends. I like to play stuff like AD&D and I am a pretty hardcore gamer for games most girls wouldn't play like World of Warcraft etc. My own gender don't boycott me too. I have a few close friends of the same gender who isn't talking about the latest fashions and make-up or gossiping about someone else. I don't see why this is a problem, unless the guy is insecure and cannot stand having his gf mixing with other guys Twisted Evil

You know, sometimes it's a personal choice by the girl and not because her own gender is avoiding her Rolling Eyes

6. I have more than 5 bfs before. I can go on about why it didn't work out but it is really none of your biz and no I wasn't the one being dumped

newmanmback SG

i am a guy but like to dress up in girls' dresses and play barbie dolls hope i can hav periods like them too and i hav lots of gals frens Embarassed

^tamago^ SG

haha. be my sista...

joking only lah..... Laughing

alexkusu SG

looks like this once bothers u the most...judging by the emphasis placed.

for me, peelin prawns for me to eat enuf liaw.. simple needs nia Embarassed

^tamago^ SG

whoa. wat's with peeling prawns...... sigh.

Kuali Baba SG

Have you examined yourself yet? Do you know what you're really looking for? Wink

ShrodingersCat SG

Probably kenna scolded cos he wanted some girl to cook for him before. hurhurhur. I think what he doesnt realise is... if the girl loves you, she will try to be the best gf/wife she can be for you.

And... if the girl doesn't love you, she can fulfill all of the above, but simply not wish to do so for you.

It will be difficult though, to find someone who will love you for who you are, given that you are already so critical and judgemental before you enter the relationship.

ShutterBug SG

The one single over-powering criteria of all criteria that makes a GF or a Wife;
you must have true LOVE for her.

When you love a person, all other imperfections becomes bearable.

True, or false?

elindra SG

Btw, most guys I know who said they won't go after another guy's gf or wife ultimately did so because they like the girl too much. It's easy to say something, but when love/lust/whatever you wanna call it hits you, you might find yourself acting against your beliefs Wink

ShrodingersCat SG

Actually its false. You can love her/him to begin with only because the imperfections visible to you were bearable - i.e. you were already attracted to her looks, her character, her personality. However, relationships break up when they discover sometimes some other imperfections that they simply cannot tolerate. As for lasting relationships, I think people stay happiest longest with the person whose faults they can tolerate the most. It's all kind of selfish really. Wink