People should have children, and should learn to love them if
they don't, because the fruits of bringing up your children and
loving them is unconditional filial care by your own children at
the end. Isn't that a good thing?
I don't think that there ever exists a selfish reason because the
moment you decide to have kids, you are already committed to a
lifelong process of raising your own children, and in there, there
is already love for the children from the start.
Have you ever thought way ahead in the future and all that you want
to do in the end is all for your own good in your old age?
If majority of the ppl in a certain country should not have
children because they do not love them, how drastic will become of
the future population of this country?
Its reasonable that there must be a decent standard of living and
education for children to be born under, but aren't our parents and
ancestors born under harsh times and still grow up to be
responsible parents?