Your future spouse, Fate or worked for?

Agenda SG

Do you believe in fate that will bring you together? Or work hard for it? My friend tell me that now everything is just infatuation and you will know when god sends your true love, But then again.. How do you know its true love or not if you don't work for it Laughing

dark_snowboy SG

i believe its fate

CoolMyth SG

As Mr Fugue(where is he?) said:

It's destined. Laughing

sinicker SG

yah ah.. where is he??

darknessfall SG

yr friend is + isit? Mr. Green

love is like gambling..u need luck, and skills.

so in love, you need fate plus your hard work too...
got fate, but u dun go for it can?
or u work hard finding one, but no fate to meet the right one can?

so all play a part...

You can tell your friend that God creates man and woman, but not fate. Maybe god creates opportunity for you and her to meet, but you must put in effort to cherish the r/s too mah..( i m not + hor) Wink

yuko-ogura SG

fate can bring u two tgt.but still,it's up to u to work during the courtship.no work,no pay.

but then again,it's also fated if u two are tgt in the end.

it's juz as bewildering as the qn of egg or chicken first.

life2121 SG

agreed

Meet365.com SG

50/50 Mr. Green

Heartzzz SG

Very interesting topic....Hmm, let me think what i feel about this...

Of course it needs fate for 2 persons to know each other....Fate and destiny decides who we meet in our life....But its our heart who determines who stays in it...

To meet and to know is easy, but to meet, to know and to fall in love is not easily...Attraction gets 2 persons together, but it needs a lot of work after that to maintain the relationship...2 persons maybe meant for each other, but it needs love and of course time for them to realise that they are soulmates...It means, if 2 persons are meant to be and fated for each other, but if they never spend enough time together to realise that, then in the end they may still go their separate ways....

Fated to be together doesn't mean fated to be together all the way...It needs time, love, commitment, sacrifice and a lot to make it last....Don't everything say leave it to fate...Make it happen yourself!!

Parka SG

How about this for thought.

What if there's no fate at all?
You just go out and chase every person you see with the intention of making her/him the future spouse.

Laughing

Then this is truly called "worked for".

Fate is just another word for Luck.

rainee SG

I believe it is Fate that brings both of you together, and determine whether you can be together or not in the end...it is like if you put in efforts and it is fated you will be with him/her, then everything will be alright. But if not fated, no matter how much efforts you put in, still won't be together Neutral

Ito_^ SG

its fated. Twisted Evil

charlize SG

It's money.

Just money.

No money, no honey. Laughing

TooFree SG

Work for .... HAHAHHAHAHAHHAaHAHAHHAHA

I chose fate now...