this guy, we have been friends since p3. that is like 10 years
liao. before we went to sec schools we were very close friends.
even our parents know each other because we also go each other to
play.
right, at sec school, we kept lesser contact, but i would still go
to his house to play ps2 and pc.
after O levels we even went to work together.
i thought we were old friends, like xiong di like that.
then some time ago , he blocked me in msn. for a very long
time.months maybe even a year. his hp change number, but he also no
inform me. however i had his house number in my head so i called
him out for a primary school gathering on wed.
we went there together. talking like old friends.
there we met old friends and new faces. there is a girl that i am
attracted to.
me and the girl wanted to watch kingkong so we thought of asking a
few other friends out. then she mentioned about this guy. so i
thought how come she remember him? so she said he added her in
msn.
then my blood boiled. a friend for 10 years, and he block me in
msn, even after the gathering. a girl who he knew for less than 5
days, and he added her even though they did not talk much on the
gathering.
then i was on the phone with the girl, and from her, while she talk
to him, she managed to find out that he had blocked me on purpose.
then when she asked why? he said it is a long story. he admited to
blocking me on purpose.
to me, he was a friend, like a xiong di.
to him, i dont know. he blocked me purposely, didnt contact me,
change hp no inform me, and he somemore told me that he lost my hp
number.
is this kind of friend, worthy of giving him a chance to
explain?
you might say i am very sensitive or very petty. but i am sorry. i
am very spriteful. i msn him just now. saying since he dont treat
me as a friend, lets end this 10year friendship. from now on, we
are no longer friends.
i dont like it when i treat someone good, take him as a brother,
and he doesnt give 2 hoots about me.
if someone who knows you for 10years, is willing to block you,
delete your number, not contact you, and not inform you of the
change in hp number, i dont see how much i would mean to him as a
friend.
what are your takes on this?
