How do you tell your guy friend wants to be your gay friend?

last SG · 2005-12-19T00:04:05+00:00

then im a gay for years liao. unless he tells u he has special feelings for u,otherwise dun be 2 bothered bout it. get to noe more frens.

Ito_^ SG

first time i heard this. Laughing

klishcia SG

Tell him you got gf or other commitments, so that you can turn him down if he wants to go out with you. Still go lunch together but try to avoid him (in office) as much as possible.

Thats what i do , when guys ask me out. Smile

Misogynist SG

One day, during ya lunch with ya colleagues including him, come up with this story that ya were harrassed by a gay while out shopping or something..

Make it sound funny, and check his reactions.. Ya straight colleagues would be laughing abt it, but if he seems uncomfortable or gets pissed, den ya got ya answer..

Ito_^ SG

wtf. my friend complained to me once. Laughing or was it twice.. does dat make me look gay?

borntolive SG

Misogynist SG

maybe he’s hinting, haha…no offense..

redname SG

Originally posted by JennTS:

i was kinda talking to another trans friend of mine while we were out last mon, about how its alright for girls to do all these stuff, but its not for guys.

i mean, girls can share their food and drinks with each other, but for most guys, if they ever asked another guy that, they'd think the other guy is mad.

also, heterosexual girls can kinda hug and kiss each other, or get a little close, or even say to each other 'love you' and its perfectly fine. but for guys, if a friend ever did any of that to you, guys would feel really wierd, even if the other person only means that he cares for you as a friend and nothing more.

and you noticed how most girls seem to be alright sleeping with each other on the same bed? during my last church youth camp, (i was a guy then) the guys never tried to squeeze people onto the bed. they were all pretty comfortable with so much space. but for the girls they joined the beds together and tried to squeeze as many girls there as possible, and they didnt seem to have a problem. maybe its just cause guys are dirtier. =P

anyway...i know where i'd rather belong. the 'hey brudda' thing is so NOT me.

huh? u were a guy then? so r u some sort of a tranny? u came from church & became a tranny? wow, interesting

redname SG

hey, there's nothing wrg if tht guy jus wanna know u better, maybe he felt he found someone he can really be buddies with?

everyone has their way of making frens, maybe his is like tht?

& so wat if he really is gay? doesn't mean he likes u or wants a piece of ur arse rite? gays r like normal gals also, they dnt go for every guy they c, so pls dnt get the wrg idea.

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