Regarding the common topic issue, I think we have to be fair.You
can't force an Ah Beng to talk about Literary Studies or how the
impact of losing one town to Zarqawi's men might have on the US
Army in Iraq.Common stuff comes with greater understanding at
first, and once you get to know people better, the common ground is
enlarged.
I certainly feel unhappy when we are tarred with one huge brush
that says intolerant, snobbish and haughty.Confidence is not
snobbery, literacy is not arrogance and ideas of school loyalty
should not be construed as being elitist.
I'm Chinese Peranakan, and yes when I was younger, I did have this
notion that other people are not worth the trouble of
understanding.But after entering NS and realising that diversity is
one of God's greatest gifts to man, I'm much more engaging to
anyone, even those who are of different backgrounds from me.
Well, maybe it helps that I do speak fairly fluent Hokkien and yes,
I'm proud of my culture, which is that of Singapore and Brunei.I
see myself as a Straits/SEA Chinese, born in the tropics, bred on
bak chor mee and roti prata.I may hate durians but I certainly love
the smell of laksa and seafood.I believe that you need to speak the
language of others to be a true cosmopolitan and not insist on some
pre-conceived notion of linguistic superiority.Better to order char
kway teow in Hokkien and see a faint smile than stumble your way
around in broken English trying to get your point across, by which
time, the food is cold and the queue wants your pound of flesh
.
Contrary to popular belief, we are not bootlickers of Western
culture, save for the ignorant young who will mature and realise
that their education has made them confident enough to face the
world and be equally adaptable to anywhere they live, work or
play.