I got this from another forum.
Ever considering have a relationship with a Promoter in a
Pub??
Hey all,
as show on the headline, will you consider them as your potential
gf??, for those who are foreign to the term promoter. they are gal
who is come to you to ask if you need to order any drink in the
pub, then talk to you , play game with you, smoke with you, make
friends with you, drink with you. etc.
I recently know this gal when i partonize this pub, know this
promoter, not very chio but very friend and stuff.. then 1st day i
know her.. we hold hands and have friendly kiss (maybe we are quite
drunk then) and we exchange hp numbers. and i send her home that
night after she knock off. she hurt her finger, so i propose to go
the 7 - 11 for plaster and antispactic cream for her to apply...
her plaster quite wore out liao, after re-apply the dressing for
her.. flag a cab and send her back to her door step.. she slept on
my lap throughout the journey.. then i go back home.. no monkey
business
Even since.. when i go there if she is there.. she will stand very
close to me.. and hold hand secretly (she inital it 1st) and she
will tell me many thing about her.. etc say thing like she is touch
when i reapply the dressing for her that day... but when she turn
to my friend and talk.. she like become another person just like
any other promoters.. like wearin a mask and take off instantly...
:confused:
when talkin to me, she told me why she is in this line..her family,
her work... her problems, and she also added a clauses that say u
can don't believe me as she know she is working in such place.. ppl
tend to stereo type people.
Then yesterday when i go there for drink with friend have fun...
beside me sat lady friend of mine and talk to her for something..
this promoter sat there say nothing... then go away for a while
after sitting there been ignored by me coz i talk to my friend.. ..
after which she came back. she ask where is my gf that sat beside
me.. told her.. i don't have a gf.. that was just a friend.. can
see the instant change in expression before and after she ask and
listen to the question. Then dunno how come later part of the day..
she so sad when she told me she got scolded by my mom coz she
always go home with alcohol smell.. etc.. then i told her i also
dunno how come say.. "can i protect you and let you have my
shoulder when u need me?".. then she reply. will u be serious with
me or just say for fun.. i kept quiet and kiss her....
But problem is later yesterday night when the shop close.. i saw
her hug and been hug by a few customer too.. i was kinda confused
again... is that her way to "keeping customer" ?? dunno whether she
got kiss other customer or not. but come to think of it, since she
is in this line..physical contact is inevitable. but am i just
another customer to her too?? if not.. i will not like my gf to be
touch by other guys.. so i dont know whether i should go for her as
gf or just play play can liao... :confused:
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