One unique solution I saw was the bridegroom threaten to cancel
the whole wedding affair and not go fetch the bride in a jokingly
manner. Then guess wat, the bride inside the room quickly ask her
sister to stop playing too much to let him in hahahaha......
See the bride also wanna be fetched by bridegroom lah. Cannot be
sister play until the bride cannot get married off in the end rite?
So sisters, play must got limit lah... play until bridegroom face
turn black will be a lose lose situation for both parties.
For me, most practice are cut cuz no car beep beep go fetch....
just go eat at restaurant and go ROM sign paper can liao...... save
me so much trouble 
