It also makes you stronger sweetie 
And make you into the person I love today, so
there...there is usually a silver lining behind everything...
Anyway, about the donation thing, I think we should blame the
people who are in charge of it, instead of restraining ourselves
from donating. As long as someone trustworthy can be elected to be
in charge of it, I dun see why there is any wrong in donating to
those who are less fortunate. And if someone is destined to be
struck by a deadly disease, it doesn't mean that person will die
from it, and hence would need lots of resources to pay for his
treatment, etc.
