Are you the loser of the family

last SG · 2005-10-29T07:01:55+00:00

Blessed be the losers... for they determine the winners. I make the rest of my siblings look good.. I am the YING..they are the YANG .

chronicles SG

Brother 19 years old

Current:2nd year in Computer science ,University of Melbourne
He traded his JC for Trinity colleage
O levels: 9 or 11 points(cant remember)
He studied in St Joseph institution and got 252 for PSLE
Went to EM1 during Primary School
Got several distinctions for New South Wales maths competitions

Sis 20-something years old

Current:Working
University attended:University of Michigan, electrical engineering
A Levels: Unknown
O Levels:9 points
PSLE:Should be slightly lesser than my bro(SHe took PSLE during 1993)CHIJ Toa Payoh s.s
She was at the year where she had to be streamed twice
Several distinctions for university internship project at companies

Me(Loser of the family)
Went EM2
PSLE:190
School:I am not going to disclose, but its a neighbourhood school at Toa Payoh
Retained Once so far(Next year i am repeating my sec 3)
No prizes or distinctions for anything so far

kc_leung SG

Are you the loser of sgforums? Laughing Rolling Eyes Mr. Green

sinicker SG

self-explanatory. Laughing

skyfoo SG

dun be so obvious, at least make one big round.

renorenal SG

Hahaha... =P Aiyoh... everyone is special Laughing

Simple_Bear SG

Dun use academic results as the standard for defining whether U r a loser...

To Ur family members, there is no losers in the family...

Mr. Green

XsIcSiCsIcX SG

plz decrease your threads plz Laughing

so many Rolling Eyes

sgFish SG

ni lai yi quan shoot wo ah?

anhydrouscoppersulphate SG

loser of sgforums n family congrats.

Li Ka Shing SG

Don't worry about it. Just try to improve urself. If you feel you are a loser, it's bad for ur self-esteem and u will perform badly for the rest of ur life......

U should instead think that you have an advantage, and that is the fact that your siblings and family are talented and achievers. You should think you are one of them and has the potential to be an achiever. Use it as a motivation.

Mr Soh SG

When people say that "once a loser , always a loser" is not true.
I was the loser of my family. But look at me now, i am earning more than the rest of my siblings at one point of time (in school) doing better than me.

nomood SG

your bro and sis would have been losers in my family.

but seriously, why oh why would anyone want to give themselves unnecessary pressure?

I mean, it sucks and all, but what's more important is to suck it up and move on.

A man has gotta do what he has gotta do. Unless you're a gal, of course... then just find a rich man and marry out. Wink

digicharat SG

sure you might have done badly earlier on in your life...
but if you start to work hard now, you will eventually succeed in the future.

there is no such thing as a loser. everyone has their strong point. yours maybe isnt in studying. spent some time to develop what you do best...

kc_leung SG

Embarassed
Laughing

shade343 SG

losers are special in the sense that...they never win? Laughing

renorenal SG

Ahhh... now that I prefer the term unique Laughing

sabaisabai SG

Who's the loser:

Me: first class honours, good salary, just bought an HDB flat in a good area, have a beautiful wife, who arguably doens't love me and I'm an alcoholic

My brother: struggled through school, wife not so pretty, primary school teacher, loves his job, has a great family with four beautiful kids

How do they add up? They don't. PSLE and acedemic scores don't matter. Life is what you make of it, and regrets and envy won't help you. The only person who can make you feel like a loser is yourself.

sinicker SG

it's sad that usually, the term "loser" goes to the one with the least education..

we've heard of rich, educated families whose children don't even talk much with their parents...

we've even heard of poor, lowly-educated families where each and every member loves each other very much...

sometimes, when i write GP essays, it sucks to state a stand when i cant choose one coz' life by itself, is already an irony.

GP exam : 11/11/2005

Sad

confusedboi SG

same here gp exam on 11/11/05..............

Crying or Very sad

renorenal SG

Education alone is hard to be made as a yardstick to compare whether one is a loser or not... probably you could discuss this topic in the five components of the human aspect... mental, emotional, physical, social and religious...