Males can cry? Or is it better to hold back?

last SG · 2005-10-23T22:06:33+00:00

zhi3 shi4 wei4 dao4 shang1 xin1 chu4...

kaobeikaobu SG

ask croco.... Laughing

renorenal SG

Yeah... somehow that would be my second question, I wonder why sometimes girls cry, guys just tidak apa, especially when there reach a verge of breaking up... I mean.... girl's tears are quite powerful to make guy's knees go weak... rite?

renorenal SG

Hahaha... so mean! Twisted Evil

kaobeikaobu SG

there are guys who cried like there's no tmrw, girl also tidak apa...

so it's depends on individuals nt just based on sex.

as for ur first, maybe gotta do with what we normally perceived in the society, as guys shld be emotionally stronger than girls. So it's something if the guy really goes on his knees or/and cry....

alfagal SG

usually guys wld hold back their tears ma..most of them wld think tat its sissy to cry, or so called social behavior to b a man, cant cry wat..

but if a guy really cried, it mus have been of something quite a strong emotion that caused e tears lo..or put it in another words, things mus have been quite bad tatz y they cried....

so if u imagine wat e guy is going thru, u will only feel heart ache or touched lo..

babymac13 SG

Nan Ren Ku Ba Ku Ba Bu Shi Zhui.......

sinicker SG

if T.T. Durai cries, everyone will start donating to NKF again! Laughing

renorenal SG

I see... I see... ok... next time I will remember to take a bottle of water with me when I go propose (knowing that I will get rejected) Mr. Green

Thanks for the explanation alfagal Smile

renorenal SG

Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:

there are guys who cried like there's no tmrw, girl also tidak apa...

so it's depends on individuals nt just based on sex.

as for ur first, maybe gotta do with what we normally perceived in the society, as guys shld be emotionally stronger than girls. So it's something if the guy really goes on his knees or/and cry....

I see what you mean... it does take a lot of guts to do that... Thanks for the explanation kbkb Mr. Green

-ohyeah- SG

i dun understand.....

wat is tidak apa?

renorenal SG

tidak apa in Malay, it means no reaction... or dun care attitude...

fudgester SG

Malay for 'it doesn't matter.' Wink

thinkdifferent SG

It's touching when a guy cries becasue it shows that he is sensitive and that means he can understand us ladies and won't hurt us. But hey, that doesn't guarantee he can udnerstand us and won't hurt us. I have been hurt and misunderstood by a sensitive guy... He has changed from a senstivie and understanding guy to a furious monster. Damn, I shouldn't post much of my personal life here.

Anyway, I personally don't like guys (I mean I wouldn't like to have such guy as a bf or husband, but no problem if a friend) who cry too much coz that shows that they are weak and mentally unstable. Guys who sh.. in their pants if something happens are like kids, in case of troubles you have to hold them above the water.

ditzy SG

If you hold back your fart, it doesn't really feel good right? Laughing

renorenal SG

Walau eh... what an analogy Mr. Green

renorenal SG

Originally posted by thinkdifferent:

Anyway, I personally don't like guys who cry too much coz that shows that they are weak and mentally unstable. Guys who sh.. in their pants if something happens are like kids, in case of troubles you have to hold them above the water.

Hahaha... how true... Laughing

vIn.Warrior SG

you'll feel alot better if you let out and cry. go ahead!
but for guys, if you really want to cry, maybe try hiding in some corner where no one can see or hear you crying; if not sure damn paiseh to let gurls see you cry.
Mr. Green

stellazio SG

my tears evaporated into the sky a long time ago.. Laughing

renorenal SG

I've heard of a quote from a friend going like this...

Girls cry, guys weep...

Is there any difference between crying and weeping? Or is it just there so that it sounds nicer?

BabyLover SG

meaning guys shed tear.. d quiet sobsob kind.. while gals really cry out Mr. Green

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