Can love be cultivated?

last SG · 2007-03-06T11:37:26+00:00

if u believe enough miracles will happen… even if its one sided as long as u can see her smile all the effort is worth it

necrolyt3 SG

If you have been rejected by a girl, will you stay by her side and hoping she’ll be touched by ur sincerity 1 day… or ask her a final qn if she minds u not giving up on her? I heard girls are different from guys. If they don’t like you, no matter what u do they won’t like u. Can love be cultivated? Other than moving on, which seems hard at the moment, any other constructive suggestions?

Isis SG

yes but then there is a high chances that the girl will not like u, no matter how hard u tried.

Don't put all ur eggs in one basket.

Ito_^ SG

ya so dats y muz support polygamy. Very Happy

Isis SG

yea so woman aso can have many husbands too loh.

allentyb SG

this is not utah....... i want to be a muslim in malaysia, can marry 2 wife Embarassed

Bontakun SG

Rolling Eyes

Wait till the ladies come in and see this...

I can imagine an angry mob chasing after Ito...

Ito_^ SG

Laughing dats wad the definition said.

MooKu SG

I'll make origami out of you.

Patrik SG

Dun waste ur time on someone who doesnt know how to appreciate you.

Ito_^ SG

u need to prove u can sarport both of them equally well ok.

need lotsa money, time, patience and sperms. Laughing

Ito_^ SG

Very Happy i wan be froggy!

browniebaobao SG

y go ask her whether u can like her or not?

it's ur freedom.

if i love somebody, i will continue loving, even if he duno about it..

hopefully one day he will understand..

necrolyt3 SG

Then how do u love him from a distance? There is nothing really much u can do abt it isn’t it? I regreted cos’ i was like quite irritating and stalking her lidat. it’s not a gd thing to like some1 alot too.. it will mess up ur mind, doing things u dunno wat ur doing. but i juz cant turn back anymore. I have already given her the impression that im a desperado stalker. I guess the best thing to do now is to leave her alone, dun contact her for a few mths. I wonder if it’s the wisest thing to do.

browniebaobao SG

I can understand how u feel..

when u like somebody too much, u tend to miss him/her a lot. then start to do things out of ur mind.

love doesn't have to be physical right? so y can't love from a distance? tho i will say, it's hard to maintain that love.

Patrik SG

One sided love?????
Sad

browniebaobao SG

sad but true hor.. Sad

babymac13 SG

Loving someone doesn't mean the one must love you.

Love can be in many ways.

necrolyt3 SG

yup i agree. But how many of us can be that noble.. love from a distance?
I think most of us become 'noble' becoz we are left with no choice. I guess i will slowly drag my feet and move on.. Im checkmated. no use becoming a sore loser and turn the tables. Thx for ur help.. i think hotel heart break is better than aunt agony... haha

browniebaobao SG

hmm.. ur siggie is the same as one quote in my fren's friendster wor.

left with no choice or juz plain stubborn?

for me, it's plain stubborn. Laughing

necrolyt3 SG

maybe im ur fren :p

maybe stubborn ba. if we know he/she is the one for us, it's unlikely we will give up easily. Once we give up, we may not have the chance to meet another person who captures our hearts so well.