Are there many single moms out there?

changb57 SG

I have read the sunday straits times and notice that there are really a lot of single moms out there.
Some are wedlock who are with married man with primary family of his own but still got so call 'mistress' and even got a family with her.
Some could be divorcee. (So am I.) Confused

anyone read this?

in Chinese newspaper, there are a lot of death cases about lovers and etc...that even involve family such as kids' death.....

Is it all men's faults or is it the women????

I wonder....??? Shocked

sgboy2004 SG

cases will be dealth on a case-by-case basis... cannot use one bamboo to strike off whole boat of pple...

even within each case, it is his story vs. her story... wat is wrong or right lies in the conscient...

changb57 SG

it is so sad when it involve kid's life.....and i find that it is more and more common nowaday in singapore....man having another family out there.

sohguanh SG

I have always believe sex money power love politics are some common traits in Human race. A lot of world tragedies revolve around such themes. It is common not only in spore but in the whole world.

Wat I am more interested is in alien abduction and alien human sexual intimacy, offspring from aliens etc which I believe in spore are still very rare indeed Mr. Green

mistyblue SG

Chinese papers like to sensationalize stories for increase sales.

I do agree there is an increase in the number of dysfunctional families as a result of many factors and changes in our environment, demographics and social arena.

But who is to judge what really happened hence one has to be fair that when a r/s breaks down, both parties are usually at fault to a certain extend.

changb57 SG

the sunday straits times also mentioned that there are an increase in wedlock babies. which mean that single mom who give birth to the baby just put their lover name in the birth cert. Shocked .... how could it be when you need to put the IC etc.....unless the lover agree to it...but i thou marriage cert is also needed????

Mr Fugue SG

it's all destined. Cool

starblue SG

yes! there are quite a number of single mums out there. there is an organisation known as HELP FSC (Help Every Lone Parent Family Service Centre) who caters for this group of people...

it is both encouraging yet dismaying to see what they do in there. encouraging because you can see how these mothers uphold each other as they struggle through single-parenting. dismaying because the numbers are, indeed, on the rising... this brings a doubt to mind: what is marriage, in this modern society?

Burgerking SG

.... Rolling Eyes