Xiao Jun SG Today on my way to work, I met with a rather peculiar experience...so wish to find out how u gals would have reacted. I'm hopeful for some enlightening responses! I was in e MRT as usual, vying for standing room in an overcrowded cabin. I was a good 6 stops away from my stop when I felt someone running their fingers through my hair! I can't tell if it was 1 of those "harassment-suite-waiting-to-happen" touches because I reacted immediately to it by letting out a little yelp (at least I believed it was a little yelp hehe ) shifting away from e hand & turning around to look at e person it belonged to (knocking into some ppl crammed beside me in e process). But I was pretty certain e touch was made deliberately. I found where e hands led to .it belonged to this office-attired Caucasian man who was very apologetic. He kept explaining that he saw a bug in my hair in a fluster while seemingly searching around the cabin floor for e bug that got away. I wasnt in a right frame of mind to judge (Im terrified of bugs ) so I just thanked him while nervously screening e floor (in case e bug decides to come back home), trying desperately to hide my embarrassment & containing my fear at e same time! This small commotion turned everyones eyes on us. e cabin was cramped so there was no place for me to turn away from him. So we exchanged some casual and very subdued small-talk (I was still in a fluster because of e bug). When I finally got to alight (I heaved a huge sigh of relief here u wont know how fast I tried to get out of there ), he followed me & asked me to wait. I turned to face him with a feeling of inner dread (I was hoping for e embarrassing to end A.S.A.P!) when he produced his name card & asked for mine in return! My mind drew a blank so we exchanged name cards (actually Im kinda regretting it now). I got to office & started pondering. I shared e episode with my closer colleagues who asked & they feel strongly that this is a ploy by that guy save for 1 or 2 who thought otherwise (hmm do guys really stoop that low to get numbers?) So my morning drama ends here .any inputs ladies? What would u have done faced with e scenario? Or any advises for me now?
charlize SG First he'll be nice to you. Buy you a candlelight dinner. Buy you roses. Then he'll send you home. His home.
Tier SG the caucasian man can really think of an excuse so fast man haha. If I were you in the train I would be suspicious of him man. thinkin 'does he has hair fetish' haha! he could have told you that your hair has a bug before sweeping it off for you. but actually it may be a really a bug you got it outside, he is trying to be helpful cause foreigner may not think touching a strange girl's hair is a big fuss. After that thinking you are friendly, he decide to exchange his namecard. wait for his call then if he calls to make friend then you ask whether is there really a bug?
the.raven SG I thought the typical sg female reaction is scream molest? then that angmoh get caned, LOL>
mistyblue SG New place to pick up girls - in tight confines of a overcrowded MRT ... where the angmoh can check out the girl's assets first before going for the fake bug story and reel her in...
dcx SG Hello~ XiaoJun....long time no see...haha.... What i feel is that that ang mor's speaking the truth bah...maybe there's really a small bug n your hair....and maybe becoz he finds u quite sociable bah...that's y he asked for your name card, n he'll call u one day to meet up for a chit chat n drink....think some ang mors are like that one de....
