If it does make you feel any better, there is a condition
whereby guys (XY chromosomes) are born girls with prominent
external genitalia of the female, yet possessing internal
genitalias of a guy (testicles developed in the abdomen).
Such group of individuals are surprisingly very very beautiful
because of excess (100% estrogens, normal girls have less than 90%)
female hormones. This is so because of a defect in the hormonal
pathway that makes testosterone.
All testosterone, progesterone and estrogen are present in both
guys and girls, only at different ratios, so an imbalance within in
gives rise to uncommon disorders such as the above.
This condition is known as Testicular Feminizing Syndrome (TFS) and
they believed that some of the Hollywood Celebrities have this
problem because of excess beauty. I shan't mention names =P
Such individuals are brought up as girls and they will never know
their problem, only thing they know is that they may never get
pregnant.
It is true that TS are born with a girl's mind. After all, it's not
their fault that they want to be girls.