Singaporeans fail in relationships?

leon_lai89 SG

most of my friends or even classmates like to quarrels with their gf. a little a time is alright but its seems they are quarreling on a daily basis if not once in two days. and from what i know people’s relationship dont last long. i mean 5 mths is not long.. 1 yr still considered not long.. what we are looking for is a stable one. not keep changing all the time. its obvious singaporeans dont take relationships seriously.

parn SG

That's usually because the guys are childish...cos.......mature guys will tolerate some nonsense from their beloved girlfriends right? Smile

Manager433 SG

Hmmm....rite. We guys must be able to endure with patience mah. Must see things openly and wif a great heart.

starblue SG

maybe the girl also too Bitchy lah… cannot say guys only responsible lah… poor guys.. always kena bad name for bullying girls…

larrenV2.003 SG

To have stable relationship both side have gotta clap to the beat.... Rolling Eyes

seow SG

Only the teen RS lah, brain haven't mature what. Very Happy

ukdecay SG

Exactly! they arent sensitive or funny or deep enough to know what love is.

I have bad encounters with 90% of the singaporean men ive been out with. And im lucky to find a nice english guy who respects me & everything in our relationship is 50/50 and he loves me for me and nothing less. Smile

BaBy_JaP_WaWa SG

most of my friends or even classmates like to quarrels with their gf. a little a time is alright but its seems they are quarreling on a daily basis if not once in two days. and from what i know people's relationship dont last long. i mean 5 mths is not long.. 1 yr still considered not long.. what we are looking for is a stable one. not keep changing all the time. its obvious singaporeans dont take relationships seriously.

i'm the person who starts all the unnecessary quarrels.. Embarassed
but he's very forgiving n tolerant abt all my nonsense.. Smile

so_what SG

i dun thk not oni in sg…i guess is the newer gen..i always heard frm my parents’s gen tat when ppl in r/s or marriage, thry tend to put more effort n endure rather than argue abt matters. They shld practice gd talking not shouting at each other.

happiee_yippiee SG

it takes 2 hands to clap.. both are at fault usually the case of whether big or small prob… be more understanding and compromise …

BadzMaro SG

LoL.. i have also noticed that..mm.. the females seem to be more dominant . They lash out at the poor dudes in public.. man.. i feel so sorry for them... i look at the dude so kolien..the chabo siong wa some more.. diu hai. Laughing

larrenV2.003 SG

Unless u have worn this on the first date

Laughing This is kinda demanding for a gf that u wanna get.

leon_lai89 SG

ya maybe its the younger generation

huiz SG

maybe it is the result of watching too many taiwanese teen idol dramas like liu xing hua yuan? they actually think bickering like shancai & dao ming si actually spices up the relationship? Laughing

leon_lai89 SG

ya girls usually idolise the serials dramas thinking a fairytale will happen. oh man come on be realistic.. girls call us whiners but guys say they are princesses

uhbaden SG

I always given in to my wife (whether I'm right or wrong initially), right from when we were dating till we are married with a beautiful kid now. And we are very happy together.