is he interested?

morningglory SG

i have a colleague whom i liked for some time & recently we started talking more than the mere 'hi-&-bye' type of colleague. we both like listening to the same type of songs & after i sent him two songs, he lent me a cd of mp3 to share. does it mean we have a possibility of developing a relationship?

my fren told me to take it easy at this stage but i cant help thinking abt him... Neutral wat shld i do in case he is juz being frenly only?

papercut87 SG

haha judging from what youve said, i think he's interested. go fer it babe! Smile

ditzy SG

Interested in sex? Most likely. Laughing

renorenal SG

I think it's quite typical to be in that position. When you think that you want to fall in love, you will, and you are. Things happen when you want them to happen and one will lead to another much deeper issue.

He is definitely interested in you, and you are infatuated with him (can't stop thinking about him). Why not take it slow and understand his characters more first rather than jumping into a relationship and fall into the statistics of 1-week or 1-month relationship failure?

Things will work out much better if you know him better, not by what he likes best, but what he do best...

DriftingGuy SG

Not to rain on your parade but its hard to tell that he likes you just by giving u the CD and talking to u more often... As for possible or not.. if hes single and healthy then of course its possible la... Laughing

morningglory SG

are all guys like that one? Sad

stellazio SG

Oie ditzy don't spill cold water on people leh..Ok morningglory back to your question..If you want me to make you happy den the answer is NO,if you want the sad truth den the answer is YES.. Laughing

RockeY SG

Rubbish la you..Erm ok,i think on evidence so far there's not alot of hints that he's interested in you yet,however try to improve the current relationship first like maybe going out for dinner after work cause frankly speaking just sharing songs ain't enough..After that den its easier to tell whether he's interested in you.. Razz

Arena SG

honestly, not all....
but those exceptionals are already an endangered species

stellazio SG

I think i belong to the species which is extinct liao.. Embarassed

Eiizumi SG

Test him first loh.

Some guys are just being friendly lah.

So to make sure, better hint or test his movite bah...

morningglory SG

how to test him?

stellazio SG

Like what rockey said earlier..Go out on a few dates first like dinner after work or lunch together..Men motives very easy to tell one..If despo for sex sure very kan chiong type..Those really like you want will be patient and more caring i think.. Laughing

Eiizumi SG

Give him something first...

Maybe like ask him out to lunch with you together or give him another music CD to see how he react loh...

You woman should sense how he feel bah... Men more retard into getting how relationship works...

Rhonda SG

It isn't exactly easy to gauge if a guy's interested in you or not, because some very friendly types make you think that they might be from their actions, when actually, they're just being friendly. Razz Very pai seh, if that's the case! Razz Embarassed

I'd say take it slow and easy. See how things develop. Get to know him better first by doing things together. Wink Then, see if he makes the next move! Wink

ditzy SG

What if he's also reading this thread and knows your tricks, and then he also plays safe? Laughing

stellazio SG

Well said,learn from the mdm..Someone who speaks from experience can't be that wrong.. Laughing

morningglory SG

got once i went to his side to do my work & he made chinese tea for me...i din say i want or not coz i dun like chinese tea but he asked me out of courtesy i oso dunno how to reply. then he accidentally saw my email once & knew i hav frenster & immediately he asked him to add him. i was kind of surprised too..

i hope he is going to our company's retreat too...it is a good chance to be ard with him.

morningglory SG

play safe for what? Confused

ha8n SG

unfortunately only some