I am getting soooooo tired of this whole debate on the whole SPG
issue. I don't think we can ever resolve it, but i just would like
to give my honest opinion on these things.
First of all, i would admit that i DO like white men a little more
than Asian men, i also like hispanic men, basically, women like
men! To me, i was lucky enough to find a nice decent white man as
my boyfriend but i didnt go to some club to pick em up or anything,
not in a SPG way. Im sure there are people who walk along the
streets thinking that i am a SPG but those people dont know who i
am or what i do. Only people who know who i am will not label me as
that.
It does hurt that some insensitive singaporean people call me SPG
just because i have a white boyfriend because these shallow people
just cant even fathom the fact that we can be in love. Is the world
just too cold or too harsh that you feel that ALL white people go
around shagging every weekend in clubs, pubs, etc?
Again, i cant blame people's opinion on that because its girls like
Au Revoir who give girls like me a bad name.
Simply put, white men, asian men, black men.... they are all the
same. There are sooo many chinese guys who also do the whole one
night stand thing, and any othe race as well. Is it because asian
men feel inferior to the white men that make them spout remarks
like "You're only going out with him because he has a huge Cxxx?",
"You're only going out with him because he's rich", etc...
this is just soooo not true! There are white people who work hard
in Singapore and they arent rich, or are struggling to pay their
bills and stuff. I know one of such people. White men are not
necessarily rich Bianca, and they are not always attractive!
It is really upsetting to read such horrible comments about white
people because my boyfriend and i have penpals ive known since i
was 15 who are white. Those people u meet in clubs, read about in
newspapers with a sick shallow lifestyle are just a minor fraction
of the other white people who are sitting at home instead.
To me, to find someone who finally understands you, loves you in
the way u want to be love, shows his/her affections the way u like
it, respects you for who you are, is then worthy to be my
boyfriend. NOT his skin colour.
You can be asian/white/hispanic/middle-eastern/black.... you are
all the same, u are all the HUMAN RACE.
Grow up Bianca, the only way to get rich is to study hard, work
hard and work even harder. Being rich isnt a one way ticket to
happiness.
