I think for most girls
Looks - Must Kan De Shun Yan. No need to be drop dead gorgeous. Of
course if the guy is drop dead gorgeous, that is a bonus.
Character - I guess for most it's: Kind, Hardworking, Caring,
Understanding, not abusive, no vices
Money - Define poor. I know of people who live in bungalow, drive
big car etc and say they are poor and do not have enough money. I
also know of people who are living on $2k combined income but is
happy and think they have enough and better off than alot of
people.
Although bread-and-butter issues are considerations, you will have
to put it in perspective on your spending habits etc. Then again,
if you are in love and happy, you're much richer than many people
in the world 
