during your relation, u might come across many problems, some,
that others might even find it hard to believe..
so i thought before i go MIA again, i'll leave some general notes
here...
1. no one knows the relation better then u do, when in doubt, try
not to look at the relation as a part of it... look at it as if
u're an out-sider. u'll see better and think clearer.
2. no matter what situation u're faced with, show courage and
trust, to solve the problems and not avoid it. believe in ur
feelings, believe in urself...
3. if a relation has to end, let it be, pack up ur feelings and
move up, life has to continue, and one of this days, u'll have to
pick up the shattered pieces and start living again, why let it
drag, why not make it today?
4. if a person leaves u, it's not becos u're that lousy, that
weak..(a small percent of the time, tis is ture... but it's so
small, let's neglect it altogether..)it's becos he/she no longer
loves u, and that u should no longer love him/her too...
5. the is always the factor of time and space, maybe the time was
rite, but the space was wrong... so no choice, can be friends...
who knows, maybe in the near future, time and space will come
together...
6. lastly, love is not what others say, think or feel... after all,
u only seek company and help when there is problems... u'll never
ask ur friend out to celebrate any great moments, so who knows the
good side of the relation but you? do whta u feel u mus, but always
give your best, and be true to urself...
with so much said, i wish all of u good health, and memorable
relations...
