Nellie and Shinta Are Going ROM

last SG · 2005-04-19T16:52:01+00:00

*notes down... ppl to invite: fog shu & fog sao Q shu n Q sao

shinta SG

hmmm...

no point wastin so much time pak tor when u noe s/he's "the one" ??

icyprincess SG

pak tor after marriage! haha! Mr. Green

abt the invitation, Embarassed will be glad to attend Wink

i.c.y

shamanking SG

dun pak tor how to know he or she's the one??? Laughing

icyprincess SG

aiya u know one la.. Laughing

i.c.y

deathscythe99 SG

Laughing

shinta SG

when i ROM liao will invite u 2 couples Very Happy

shinta SG

Embarassed

both of u rite? or just u alone? Confused

icyprincess SG

i tink he will be glad to attend.. Wink

i.c.y

MeOwSuSan SG

????

icyprincess SG

lol...this one is too stunned until cannot say a word Laughing

i.c.y

shinta SG

after enterin a relationship for a while, u would be able to noe whether he or she is the one u wanna spend the life with.. at least.. thats wat i feel..

can ROM anytime de lor... but most couple choose to do that after a few years.. cos they wanna save up the money for a grand wedding.. reno for the home and all that...

but.. i want things to be simple... n i noe my family will be ok with that Very Happy

below is posted by Nel:

Pak tor is just icing on the cake. I think living together happily is most important

shinta SG

Mr. Green Very Happy Embarassed

icyprincess SG

hear hear! speech by the bride and the bridegroom!

Very Happy

i.c.y

shamanking SG

but sometimes, thing are like onions.. when you get deeper, the more tears you shed leh... Neutral

icyprincess SG

hmm...I think spending quality time is the most important. You can spend 4 to 5 years with one person, but if it is not quality time, you still wun get to know him well. But you can spend just a few months, but truly use the time to communicate and know each other, then that will be quality time, and you will understand him/her well enuff to know that he/she is the one for you Very Happy

just my opinion Wink

i.c.y

shinta SG

been thru that.. it all depends on the reason for the tears Wink

shinta SG

sometimes... i feel as tho i noe him inside out...

but... i dun tink i really understand him.. but.. he said.. understandin the reasons behind his actions... that would be understanding him...

thats when he said i understand him in a way Embarassed

deathscythe99 SG

Confused

Understanding each other takes a lotta time, energy and levels of understanding Wink

shinta SG

yeah...

still learnin more about him each day Embarassed

icyprincess SG

Very Happy

understanding someone takes a lifetime...so mebbe the process will continue even after the marriage? not like after marriage, oledi knows evthing ma...mebbe during the dating stage, just understand to know that he is the one you want to be with...

i.c.y

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