A Nutshell Review: Be With You
I am going to confess that I am becoming a fan of Japanese romance
films, with "Be With You" being the second of the genre I've seen
in two consecutive days (The other being "Crying Out Love, In The
Center Of The World"). But I think many of you in Singapore, being
exposed to these 2 wonderful films, have already become converts
yourselves too.
While similar in themes about love, and love lost, these 2 films
shine in the presentation of picturesque scenes, capturing of the
atmosphere, fleshing out its characters, and making every scene
count towards the narrative - every scene serves a purpose, every
pause punctuates the moment. What differs between these 2 are the
settings - Be With You having a more "supernatural" element in its
plot, and Crying Out probably a bit more anchored to reality /
tragedy.
Death has taken away Mio from Takumi and 6 year old son Yuji, and
it is no doubt that they miss their wife/mother dearly. They learn
to encourage each other as they fend for themselves - Takumi
suffering from a sort of psycho-motor illness which forces him to
refrain from overexertion.
Before she departed, Mio had given her son Yuji a storybook, which
pens at the end, that come the next rainy season, she'll be back
from the Archive Star. It is this hope that Yuji clings onto, with
Takumi going along with, even though he knows it's a tad
impossible.
However, during a trip to an abandoned shed in the woods, where
Yuji was searching for his and his mom's secretly buried time
capsule, rainy season started, and to the surprise of both father
and son, Mio reappeared, somewhat dazed. While the figure looked
like her, she had arrived with no recollection of her past, unknown
to her that she was married to Takumi, and had a child Yuji.
Father and son do not know what to make of it, but decide against
telling anyone that Mio had returned (how would relatives and
friends react, when they already had been to her funeral?). Also,
they make it a point to keep it from Mio that she had already
passed away, and are determined to make the best of her return into
their lives, which definitely needed a woman's touch around the
house.
Is this selfish? I do not think so. To lose a loved one so early,
and given a second chance to live what should have been, what would
you do? And with Mio back into their lives, everyone around Taku
and Yuji could see tremendous positiveness in their outlooks.
Since Mio couldn't remember much about the past, she asked Taku to
go through from the beginning, how they fell in love and got
married. His retelling of the story from his point of view, made up
about a third of the movie, as we journey back in time to their
schooldays, one date, forty seven letters and a breakup, and
husband and wife relive the days of sweet romance.
Will their happy days end? Since Mio explained before she initially
left that she's only back for the rainy season, Taku and Yuji had
made it an open secret in celebrating each rainy day, wishing that
the 6 weeks rainy season will not go, and last forever. You know
that it will end someday, and father and son have to go through the
pain once again of losing Mio all over. If you know what the ending
will be, will you still go through with it, despite the pain and
disappointment at the end? This is the thought that runs through
your mind as you watch their happy moments together unravel, while
secretly crossing your fingers that the ending will change for the
better.
But Mio chanced upon her diary, amongst the 47 letters buried in
the time capsule Yuji eventually found, and learns of the
inevitable. And from here, she takes charge of the situation,
knowing that she couldn't be around longer than she wished to take
care of her husband (and child), she teaches Yuji to cook and wash,
and presumably other household chores as well, so that he could
take care of his father. The strength of her love will make you
ponder the efforts one would go to ensure that your loved ones are
taken good care of once you're no longer around.
It is no spoiler to know that Mio did leave after 6 weeks (she's
already dead, remember?), but the film doesn't end there. Taku
found Mio's diary, and reading it brings about explanations of
their early courtship days from her own point of view, which really
is Kleenex time as Taku comes to understand the truth behind
certain events. The twist at the end explains the phenomenon of her
appearance in the rainy season, and the running theme of living a
life knowing its ending, makes a comeback.
I haven't been disappointed with Japanese romances thus far, and it
seems to me that every scene, every subplot, every trinket has a
point, and are not for the sake of being there. Going full circle
to realization seems a style they have mastered, which simply is
amazing, in telling a simple tale a different, poignant way. The
beautiful soundtrack adds depth and evokes the right emotions
amongst audiences, and the main leads Yuko Takeuchi (Mio) and Shido
Nakamura (Takumi) exudes commanding on-screen chemistry.
The kid Yuji, played by child actor Akashi Takei, at times seem
like a character mix between the kid from Millions and Jerry
Maguire, you know, the cute boy who makes you go "awww..." with
each of his antics and love for his mom. And Yuji will make you
feel no less with each expression of love and longing, and really
tug your heartstrings at his calling his "Mama" in helpless efforts
of bringing and wanting her back.
Based on a romance novel which I can't read during to my language
inability, I am so going to own this DVD when it's out. Highly
recommended movie to be watched in a theatre with a loved one, do
not miss this!
Postscript
If you know what the ending will be, will you still go through with
it, despite the pain and disappointment waiting at the end? This
thought that lingered throughout the movie stuck a chord in me. And
those of you who know me, will know my answer - yes, I might be a
sucker for that kind of punishment. 6 weeks is a luxury, I only had
15 minutes, and those 15 minutes lasted like an eternity that I'll
forever treasure.