Learn to handle those emotions whenever it come back to you.
Utmost important to also learn how to deal with such
situations and evil people when it happen again. Meanwhile,
go read books and articles on emotional healing.
I am also no better than you. Recently, the ugly bitchy
gangster struck again. She spit saliva on me. I have
dealt with her. You know, gangsters love to create
troubles even if you have nothing to do with them and stay away
from them.
As for relationship it is hardest to deal with. We either
will not overcome or takes a long long time to deal with it if the
hurt is too much or too deep.
Take good care, this world is full of people who will not
hesitate to be unkind to people whom they deem as poor or weak.
There are good people, they are few.
Yea, on friday when I was minding my own business and waiting
for the train, someone I barely know begin publicly mocking me for
being the "wife" of a guy. That immature asshole, like
wtf?