Hi All
Currently I am serving NS. There's this girl whom was my previous
poly classmate. We are together for 3 Years 2 months whom just
called it quits with me over Family Related Issues and Time
Commitment as I am currently in NS. And as I do shift work my
weekends are not guranteed.
She broke the news first to me via text as first saying she is
considering our relationship as she was very stress with her
studies, personal commitments, Family Issues as well as Extra
Curricular Activities in school. We thrashed matters over massage
as she was busy mugging for her Quizzes up in a few days time. I
even dropped by her school to look for her unannounced to tell her
how much I miss her and love her and we talked for a bit before she
told me she needed a cooling period to cool off.
Honestly I was devastated and smothered her with messages of how
much I love and miss her daily and even called her but to no avail
during the cooling off period. I know I should not have done this
after consulting some of my friends.
After 1 week she texted me saying she thought enough and that she
came to a decision. That she don't think that we can ever resolve
the issues that she thinks are problems in our relationship. I
replied citing to meet up for her to break the news to me as a
courtesy of our 3 years relationship and she agreed to the meet up
after her upcoming exams.
I asked her to allow me to buy her a meal when she came over for
the agreed agenda. As I really love her and want to chase her back
to be part of my life.
Any Recommendations or advice you could give me to make this
turnaround a success?
Regards
Nicholas
