Nicholas, hate to break this to you. But these sort of excuses
coming from a girl, is just BS. You're serving NS hence from Mon to
Fri you'll be in camp. And she actually said that it is due to time
commitment as one of the reason for this break up?
Think abt it dude, when a girl is stressed up she would wish
nothing more than some emotional support. It is like a pillar of
support to keep her going, be it phone calls or text msg. But she
choose to throw it away?
When girls are in uni, they would want to be be unchain and
unattach as this is the beginning of their prime. They would want
the best for themselves.
I've learn somethings thru out the years. Being a good guy would
get you nothing but heartache. Even if that girl is a good girl,
cause this world is screw up and humans being humans would always
abuse conveniences.
Dont bother telling her you will wait for her and etc.. Cause
she would not treasure it, and she would only use you as a spare.
Sad to say, she might be looking at some other guys in her uni. All
those chases, all the temptations is too great for her to
withstand. (Just my experience in this shit)
My advice to you, focus and think of what you want in life. Go
thru uni after NS and enjoy your student life go for exchange
programe if you can, lack of bucks? Work part time and fund it. Go
for your intern and if you've business opportunity go for it.
Experience it.
Your life doesnt revolve
around one girl. If she doesnt appreciate you, some girl will. But
be sure to hold it when that chance come by, cause it would be
sinful if you dont.
Good Luck Lad